people get so fucking obsessed with followers on this site sometimes. good lord
one word text messages.
seriously what the fuck.
I joke around. It’s a fact of life.
The reason for this post? I told a girl I just had a great bj (booster juice of course) and now I suspect she thinks bj meant something else entirely and is pissed at me.
We encounter so many people throughout our lives. We make friends, we fall in love with each other, we piss people off, we disappoint people, we fall out of love, all that good stuff.
We’re always meeting new people and making new friends, shaping our social circles around our current interests, work and personal life. At the same time we lose touch with other people that we once might’ve been very close with. We stop talking, stop seeing each other until eventually you don’t see them ever again.
Some might people consider this sad. I have another idea.
Instead of pining over old relationships (of any kind, platonic or otherwise) and people you once knew, look at it in the way of them coming into your life at a certain time and helping shape you as a person. They meant a lot to you while they were in your life, but life doesn’t stay stationary.
People all are at a different point in their lives. It’s a rare thing when you can find someone who you’re on the same wavelength with for an extended period of time. Sometimes you fight and lose touch with people, They gain interests that aren’t yours, they move, they meet new friends, they switch jobs, and they leave your life. It happens.
But you’ve changed as a person, grown as a person and it’s time to live your life in the present as opposed to just wishing to go back in time.
C’est La Vie
Ok, so the inventor of Teddy Ruxpin (some bear in the 80s that when you squeezed him said stuff bout friendship and rainbows or whatever), Ken Forsse, is hating on the Ted for “ruining the idea of stuffed animals” or some such bullshit.
Several points to make about this:
1. TED and Seth MacFarlane are like South park. They thrive on publicity, ESPECIALLY publicity about how offensive they are…want to stop the movie? don’t say anything.
2. The movie is rated R for a reason…A parent will have to be incredibly stupid to take their >8 year old to go see it. the child community is safe.
3. the 80s ended 22 years ago. NO ONE KNOWS WHO YOU ARE ANYMORE. wanted to say something that people will actually care about? Should have stayed relevant.
Holy fuck people get worked up over nothing.
all the tagged pictures, all the shit that people write on your wall, all the pictures you post and all the chats you have.
“hey what’s new?”
“you were SO drunk that night!”
“this is a picture of me myself and I that I took on my iphone and stuck a random filter on because it makes me look fucking artsy”
This endless feed of information pulls us in not because we actually give to shits about what people are thinking or doing, its because we want to waste away our spare time thinking that we have special talents and abilities when in fact we’re not developing as people at all.
A girl I talked with a while ago said that she had 19,000 followers on her instagram.
How did she do it?
She took pictures of herself in seductive poses. all in her bedroom.
She said how she took pictures (several days worth at a time, she’d just change clothes) and posted them and how people send her stuff just because she posts these pictures (all of them relatively the same) on her instagram.
She called her followers idiots. I’m inclined to agree with her.
People measure who they are in the world by how many people fucking pay attention to them. lost a follower? IT’S THE END OF THE WORLD OHMYGAWD. Someone unfriends you on facebook? THAT FUCKING DICK HOW FUCKING IMMATURE.
Not really…you’re immature for giving two shits about it though.
All these websites never change. They’re always the same party pictures, same “artsy” pictures, same statuses, same requests and messages, they’re all just wasting our time.
like that picture on tumblr? why don’t you take one instead of just reblogging it?
paint a picture, make a movie, write a song.
contribute instead of just consuming.
If the 5 year old kid sitting in kindergarden can draw a fucking rainbow with crayons then you can create something.
I dunno, I guess I’m just thinking we should all do something to better ourselves instead of just sitting scrolling through pointless comments and posts that we won’t remember in a week’s time.
Like “catching up” with people who you used to know.
There’s never any deep meaningful conversation, it’s all just everything that you’ve done since you guys last saw each other.
Why should you really waste so much time trying to be interested in someone you’re no longer close with/have stuff in common with?
it seems pointless.
I’ve been dragging my ass out of bed at 6am everyday to be on set at 8. I’ve been usually getting off at about 10pm at night. that’s 14 hours of standing on my feet moving lights around, working with the same people and problem solving.
And I can’t emphasize how much I fucking love it.
As this year has progressed, the more I work and the more bullshit I’ve had to go through, I’ve really found that my passion for making movies has increased. I just got home and on the walk I found myself smiling. a lot. for absolutely no other reason than I’m just high on life. To be able to have this opportunity to really work so well with such a highly creative group of people, to be able to work 14 hours and have it not seem like work at all and to be still be hyper, running around and cracking jokes after all day in the same room on set truly makes me realize how incredible this entire experience is.
I uprooted and moved to an entirely new city to pursue this dream and it’s truly been a dream come true. Just loving what I’m doing right now, not wanting to do ANYTHING else in the entire fucking world and being so stoked to work so hard is something that I think I can say I’m so so fortunate to be one of the small minority on this planet who can truly enjoy this experience.
It’s hard to believe that my school year is almost half over. It’s been fucking intense but at the same time I look at how well the last 3 days of our shoot has gone and I can say that I still know why I’m here and why I love making movies so much.
I’m basically just gushing and repeating myself over and over again but I think that sometimes people settle for a profession that they don’t enjoy because it promises to pay the bills and provide steady work. I guess I’m just so happy and glad that I can work ridiculous hours and way too hard and still be able to have the fucking time of my life doing it :):)
I just LOVE it when people who have no fucking clue what they’re doing in a certain expertise decide to try and convince the general populace that they know what they’re doing.
Because no matter who you try and BS, THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOMEONE WHO KNOWS MORE ABOUT THE SUBJECT MATTER THAN YOU DO.
I just saw a call for money for an indiegogo page from one of the people I follow here on tumblr. Intrigued (being a film student and all) I checked it out. These are the things I noticed from the indiegogo page:
DON’T TALK OUT YOUR ASS.
I just was scrolling through my dash when I came across a post of a girl talking about herself and her ex boyfriend. It was really interesting the way she wrote it. It was almost entirely about the boyfriend through what she saw was going on in his life.
This is my idea. If everyone took their boyfriend, girlfriend, close friend or someone you really know well and wrote around a page (or something) about how you met them and what’s gone on in their life since you met them.
I dunno it just seems like it would be really cool to see what people have to say about each other.
Who post shit on this website (and others) and whine and complain in real life about not having anyone and how they “just want someone to cuddle with” or some such bullshit.
This I find fucking pathetic.
What the fuck are posts like that supposed to accomplish?? You’re so lonely and desperate to hear someone sympathize and prove you wrong that you put this shit out to the public, hoping for some reply?!
We ALL get that way. We as humans want love and companionship. We want someone to share our secrets with and stuff like that. It’s just our nature. We’re social creatures.
However, just because you’re fucking single doesn’t give you the right to bitch and complain and fucking MOAN online or in real life about how you’re alone. There’s PLENTY of people on this planet who don’t have anyone they’re romantically involved with. Just because you’re one of them doesn’t give you the right to fish for compliments and appear lonely and sad. It’s fucking pathetic.
Instead of sitting in a fucking corner bitching and complaining on a fucking website why don’t you get your ass out the door and meet someone.
Counter arguement: ”I’m awkward” you say.
DEAL WITH IT.
That’s like saying you don’t like commercials so you never watch TV. You have flaws. You have problems. WORK WITH THEM. Just sitting and bitching about how awkward you are doesn’t change anything at all.
What will change it? GOING OUT AND WORKING ON NOT BEING FUCKING AWKWARD.
Girls like guys who are confident, happy with who they are and don’t give two fucks about what other people say about them.
Sure we all have those days where we want to feel sorry for ourselves, post sad songs and mope around the house. But before you go online everyday just looking for some sympathy think about this:
A bunch of people on a WEBSITE saying that they love you and want to kiss you and date you and all that bullshit doesn’t mean two fucks in the real world.
Instead of trying to tug at people’s heartstrings online, get out and work on the real you. The one that girls can actually fall in love with and not just some fucking username and profile picture.
If you don’t bother trying to get anything else other than sympathy from people then that’s what you end up getting…Just sympathy.
It’s SO FUCKING ANNOYING when a couple likes each others statuses and pictures and everything CONSTANTLY.
I’m all for liking a picture here and there because it’s cute or a status because it’s relevant.
But constantly liking EVERY SINGLE STATUS and EVERY SINGLE PICTURE of the other person honestly just makes you look like a tool.